Winter holidays often focus on family gatherings, shared traditions and time spent together. Maintaining family connections during the holiday season is essential, particularly for seniors who may not get to participate in-person at holiday gatherings this year. If harsh winter weather or distance keeps you from visiting loved ones or prevents them from visiting you, here are some ideas to stay connected with your family this season.
Whether family members are too far away to visit for the holidays or the weather keeps you apart, virtual gatherings are an excellent way to stay connected with family members. Video calls through FaceTime, Zoom, Skype or similar platforms are easy to set up. Family members can join a virtual call from different locations, so everyone can participate in holiday events regardless of distance.
Plan a virtual family event, such as a holiday meal or gift exchange. Sharing these experiences virtually may not be quite the same as being in person, but it offers an effective substitute.
Virtual gatherings help bridge the gap during the holidays, ensuring seniors feel connected and included in their family’s seasonal celebrations. Those who are not tech-savvy should be able to find someone to help them set up a virtual call at the appropriate time.
When you can’t physically be with all your family during the winter, writing holiday letters or filling out holiday cards offers a nostalgic way to get into the festive spirit. Cards and letters also provide a personal way to connect by capturing meaningful sentiments that last beyond a single conversation. Sending and receiving letters and cards helps seniors stay involved in family updates and holiday greetings. These tangible items make it easy to revisit memories and heartfelt messages anytime.
To make family connections more meaningful, include current photos and the latest news on how everyone is doing. Young children often enjoy making special handmade cards, and seniors may create greeting cards in an art class to send to their families. There are also programs families can use to send virtual cards if they do not prefer the traditional method. However, handwritten messages offer a more personal touch.
If you see family infrequently, you can feel closer to them by observing family traditions during the winter. If your family watched a specific holiday movie or enjoyed hot cocoa and holiday carols, plan to keep the tradition alive. Invite some friends or neighbors to join you to share the experience while establishing new social conditions.
Another option to feel closer to your family is cooking an old family recipe. Preparing a favorite dish offers an opportunity to connect virtually. See if family members who have never prepared the dish would like to learn how through a video call. Send them the recipe beforehand, so they can gather the ingredients. Then, talk them through the process giving them your special tips along the way. Virtual experiences are a great way to bridge the distance and create new memories.
Shopping for little gifts to send to your family can be an enjoyable winter activity that makes you feel more connected. Care packages are a rewarding way to share your love and demonstrate that you are thinking of friends and family, even if they are far away. Send a batch of your famous cookies to a grandchild at college, or surprise someone with a gift that reminded you of them. Whatever you choose, you will feel the joy of giving.
Families creating care packages for older loved ones may want to include their favorite snacks and things to do, such as puzzle books. Also consider comfort items, including a pair of fuzzy socks or a throw, that can help keep senior loved ones cozy on chilly winter days. Personalize your care package by including family photos, mementos or seasonal decorations the grandkids created especially for senior relatives. Send holiday gifts as part of the care package or separately for an additional surprise at the mailbox.
Scheduled phone calls for regular check-ins provide a reliable way for older adults to stay connected with family members throughout the year. Setting a specific time each week for calls creates consistency and gives seniors and their family members something to anticipate. Regular calls can range from short check-ins to more extended conversations about family activities, holiday plans or favorite memories, providing valuable social interaction.
Winter can sometimes bring with it a feeling of isolation for seniors due to cold weather that can limit outings. These scheduled calls offer a great touchpoint with loved ones. Regularly planned calls strengthen family bonds and ensure seniors feel included and connected throughout the holidays and the winter months.
Social connections are an essential part of Hermitage Roanoke’s Pathways to Wellness program. By connecting with others and having a support system of family and friends, residents build healthy relationships that enhance social wellness during the winter and year-round.
Call Hermitage Roanoke at 540 767 6818 today to learn more about our community’s events that offer opportunities to connect with others.
